Pregnancy is a time full of daily changes – even moment-to-moment change.
And change = stress.
As our bodies offer up new discomforts every day, even every moment, we can just feel overwhelmed. Our mind races with possible outcomes and a long to-do list of all of the things that we need to do. And our emotions – fueled by hormones – bump into each other: excitement and fear. Gratitude and misery. Hope and despair.
When I started teaching prenatal yoga in my 20’s, I had no idea how much common anxiety during pregnancy is. I imagined pregnancy to be a beautiful time filled with glowing moms-to-be and sweet baby kicks.
In my first class, I told my students, “you are all so full of divine feminine goddess beauty right now!”
And… it did not go over well. They looked at me like I was nuts.
They told me they weren’t sleeping, they had to pee constantly and they felt like their body had been possessed by an alien.
I realized they needed yoga now maybe more than ever.
Anxiety during pregnancy is becoming increasingly common.
Some say that it has now beats out depression as the most common pregnancy-related condition.
Because of all the unknowns, there’s so much to worry about. You worry about yourself. You worry about your baby. And then you worry about whether the worry is bad for baby.
Thankfully, there are several ways to help calm this anxiety during pregnancy and the first one is this – know that you are not alone and that almost every mom-to-be has the exact same worries as you.
Tip #1 for Anxiety During Pregnancy: Find Support
The first step towards easing your anxiety during pregnancy is finding support from friends, family and healthcare professionals.
If you’re worried about a strange new feeling or symptom, of course check with your healthcare provider.
Often their assurance that what you’re experiencing is perfectly normal will calm your mind. Then, if what you need is a comforting voice or listening ear, reach out to your loved ones.
For some, reaching out can be difficult.
We think of ourselves as independent individuals, and we want to be able to handle whatever comes our way. However, when we are pregnant, we have an opportunity to step into the Divine Feminine part of us, that part that knows we’re better together.
All of the support we need and deserves come through connection. If this is hard for you, let baby motivate you to be able to access this more interdependent, receptive, feeling-your-way-forward part of you.
And try thinking of it as practice for later.
Once baby arrives, being able to ask for help will be a skill you’ll be glad you cultivated.
Tip #2 for Anxiety During Pregnancy: Take Time for YOU (and baby)
As hard as it may be, take the time to slow down. Exhaustion can make anxiety during pregnancy worse. Think of resting as a productive – and necessary – part of pregnancy.
‘Lying down for even 15 minutes gives your body a chance to recover.
Do guided meditations (here’s our 5-day, 5 minute Ma Meditation challenge).
Reset your parasympathetic nervous system (responsible for calming you so you can “rest-and-digest” or “feed-and-breed”) by learning how to exhale fully.
This reset will relax your blood pressure, slow down your heart rate and reduce the firing of neurons in your brain.
Try breathing in through your nose and whisper “ha” as you slowly exhale for twice as long.
Think of drawing your baby toward the back of your body as your pelvis becomes heavy.
Notice that when you relax your lower body into the embrace of the earth, there’s more space for baby and breath.
Tip #2 for Anxiety During Pregnancy: Move Out of Your Head and Into Your Body
Remember – we are not in charge of this one.
Think of elements in nature. How easy is it to move a waterfall? A towering tree? The clouds in the sky?
The power of nature is the same power that is behind your baby right now.
Practicing yoga always starts with following the breath, a reminder of this creative power that’s always flowing through us.
There’s something bigger happening within us that wants baby – and you! – to thrive, and all we need to do is make space for it, and give it a strong container to flow through.
Movement, in general, helps us move the breath and thus moves awareness out of our headspace and into our body, where we can hear our inner wisdom.
Walking for even 15 minutes has been shown to release anxiety during pregnancy and has lots of other benefits, including cancer prevention and increasing metabolism.
So mama, take a walk around the block, do an online prenatal yoga class or dance! Take your mind off your worries and come back to breath, body and baby, just as they are right now; exactly where they should be.
